Motherhood /ˈməT͟Hərˌho͝od/ What is it? Oxford dictionary defines motherhood /moTHer(h)ood/ as the “state of being a mother.” It looks different for us all.  It doesn’t have to have similarity.  It isn’t one size fits all. It isn’t easy.  It isn’t futile.  It comes with the most complexity.   I wasn’t a person who planned for my life as being a mother.  I spent my 20’s getting all the education and experience I could in order to devote my life to counseling, therapeutic treatment, case management, and education.  I made plans for that… with big strong desires.  I studied and worked in that world for 10 years before I became a…